The Tiger

It goes by a dozen names:

Head, dome, eating out, cunnilingus, fellatio, blow job; but in essence it's all just oral sex. But when you do get to third base, do you know what to do? Here is a quick guide to pleasuring your partner orally.

Let's begin with the basics. Fellatio refers to oral stimulation preformed on a man. Cunnilingus is oral stimulus on a woman. And last but not least, analingus is oral stimulation on anyone's anus. Though all these go by different terminologies, for the sake of this article I will be using their most proper scientific names.

Ah cunnilingus, the trickiest of all oral endeavors, but with the right know-how you will have your partner squirting and screaming with pleasure. For those receiving, being bare down there is the best way to entice your partner to perform oral on you. For those giving, the most important point of stimulation is the clitoris. The clitoris is button-like and is located at the very top-most portion of the anterior part of the vulva. My first tip is be gentle; gentle sucking, kissing and licking of the clitoris are all good stimulation. Also guys, shave your beards as to reduce stubble.

After you have mastered gentle oral clitoral stimulation, you can move to more advanced moves. Try using your hands, enter the vulva with one or two fingers and gently stimulate the g-spot (rough walnut-sized spot located on the interior of the vagina a few inches below the belly button). Also try moving the angle of your head from direct frontal stimulation to the side or from above.

Fellatio is a bit easier. It's hard to be bad at head; one way to suck at it is using your teeth. It should seem as if you're toothless when you are giving a guy oral. When giving fellatio, being gentle isn't as important, and the deeper into your mouth you can get the shaft the better. Also using your hands is important; work them up and down the shaft in and out of rhythm with your mouth and also use them to gentleyroll the testicles in your hands. A little trick is when your partner is about to ejaculate to gentle pull down their testicles as they climax. It makes their orgasm last longer. Also make sure you have settled whether or not you're willing to swallow before you begin.

Analingus is for the more adventurous. The first and most important rule of going oral on anal is to be clean, very clean.

Oh, and don't forget to ask permission,;a lot of people consider the anus a no-go zone. To begin, lick in gentle circular motions. This area is very sensitive, and these moves should be enough to pleasure your partner. If you're feeling more adventurous, the next step is to, well, insert your tongue.

Finally a word to the wise: you can get all the same STIs through oral sex that you can get through regular sex. Protection -wise, you can use dental dams and flavored condoms to avoid swapping fluids. Also examine your partner for open sores; if the giver has any sores on their mouth or the receiver on their genitals, then it's highly possible to catch whatever they have. Don't floss before giving oral either; irritating the skin, gums and such makes the transfer of STIs much easier.

Now that you know the basics of oral sex, feel free to experiment. Each person has their own wow zone. Find what you like to do and get the best.

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